Social Story About Emotions and Big Feelings (Free & Printable)

Children feel emotions long before they can name them. A child who is overwhelmed may scream, hide or throw something, not because they want to misbehave but because the feeling is bigger than their words. Autistic children and children with ADHD can find emotional regulation especially hard, and may not notice a feeling building until it has already boiled over.

This social story teaches three simple steps: notice the feeling in your body, name it, and pick something that helps. It normalizes every emotion and makes clear that the feeling is always okay, even when a behavior is not.

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All My Feelings Are Okay

My name is Nora. Every day I have different feelings.
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Sometimes I feel happy. Sometimes I feel sad, angry, scared or excited.
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Everyone has feelings. All feelings are okay.
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My body can tell me how I feel. My heart might beat fast or my tummy might feel funny.
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I can try to name my feeling. I can say, “I feel angry,” or “I feel worried.”
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When a feeling is big, I can take slow breaths or squeeze a soft toy.
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I can go to my calm spot for a few minutes.
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I can ask a grown-up for a hug or for help.
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Big feelings get smaller after a while. I am learning what helps me feel calm.
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Why this social story helps

Naming an emotion is itself a calming step, and it gives adults something to respond to other than the behavior. The story separates the feeling, which is always allowed, from the choice of what to do next. Listing body signals helps children who do not yet recognize emotions until they are overwhelming.

How to use this social story

Print the story (two pages per sheet works well) or show it on a tablet.
Read it together once a day during a calm time, for at least a few days before the situation.
Read it again just before the situation happens, and keep a copy nearby as a reminder.
Swap the name and details for your child, or add real photos, so it matches their world.

What makes this a good social story

This story follows the social story approach described by Carol Gray. It is written from the child’s point of view, uses short and literal sentences, and spends most of its words describing the situation and how people feel. Only a few sentences gently suggest what to do, and they use “I can” instead of “I must”. The story names a difficult feeling as normal and ends on an encouraging note, so the child links the situation with calm and confidence rather than with being told off.

Tips for parents and teachers

Use a simple feelings chart with faces, and point to it when your child cannot find the word.
Name your own feelings out loud: “I feel frustrated. I’m going to take a breath.”
Set up a calm spot together with a few chosen items, and practice using it when your child is already calm.
Wait until the storm has passed before talking about what happened.
Avoid “Don’t be sad” or “You’re fine.” Try “I can see you’re sad. I’m here.”

Questions to talk about after reading

What feelings have you had today?
Where do you feel angry in your body?
What helps you feel calm?
Who can you ask for help when a feeling is big?

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